me: so…
how was the hot date?
3:38 PM Flaker: It was good, same as last time more or less, she continues to draw the line at anything under the panties. I think she may be considering the same thing I have been, that being “it is often a bad idea to sleep with a friend.”
3:39 PM me: she won’t let you take the panties off?
dude, i’m telling you, try the grind…. it’s irresistible
girls can hold out against most things
Flaker: dude, you’re a retard.
me: and won’t let you touch their vaginas with your hand
3:40 PM Flaker: Technique is not the weakness here
me: but the grind is all about hugging
it’s irresistible
Flaker: trust me Super I’m familiar with dry humping
me: i bet if you tried it, she’d sleep with you no matter what else is going on in her head
3:41 PM never has failed me
Flaker: I’ve done a fair bit of it in my day. In fact, did it with her, and she was, like ever girl, into it. but it didn’t go further.
me: you gotta have patience
keep doing it while you make out for twnety minutes
and she’ll rip your clothes off
Flaker: that’s because you tend to bring home desperate and or easy chicks.
3:42 PM me: lol
Flaker: We played around for a lot longer than 20 minutes
me: it’s a finishing move
if brought in at the right time
the grind is victorious
in all scenarios
Flaker: the issue is not technique, or sexual desire.
you say the grind again, and I’m not your friend anymore.
me: haha fine
what is wrong with it?
so anyways
3:43 PM tell me what else happened
3:45 PM Flaker: we had dinner, split a bottle of wine, fooled around for a couple of hours, and she went home. It was kind of interesting in the sense that I’ve already known this girl for a year and a half, so there isn’t any of the awkward conversation aspect of new hook-ups.
3:46 PM me: hmmm
i haven’t had the awkward conversation aspect recently when i start hooking up
its when i lose interest and don’t want to talk and just want to have sex that i have problesm
3:47 PM Flaker: no I mean we didn’t have to do the whole “getting to know you” thing.
me: just straight to hugs and kisses?
3:48 PM Flaker: It was more like when you’ve dated a girl for a long time, except the sexual activity was new.
No, you’re missing the point. We talked for a couple of hours before fooling around, but it was the whole, really comfortable conversation you have with someone you know pretty well.
3:49 PM I’ve never hooked up with a girl that I’ve really known before.
3:50 PM but then when it came to fooling around, it was like the exciting new hookup when you’re expSkywomanng eachother’s bodies and seeing what eachother are like.
3:51 PM me: hmmm… that’s interesting
i’ve never done that before
3:52 PM Flaker: It was a little strange, and I think that may be a part of the problem, I think she’s a little more sexually self-conscious with me because she knows me, and I’m friends with all her friends. If things went bad for some reason I wouldn’t be an easy one to just walk away from.
3:53 PM me: yeah… hmmm…
what are you going to do?
3:54 PM Flaker: dunno I think with perseverance I can get there, but in so doing, if I’m not really careful, I could end up dating her.
me: would that be so bad?
seems like you like her anyways
3:55 PM Flaker: It would take further consideration.
me: you already passed a major mile marker
just finish it
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4:01 PM Flaker: Oh, and I ran into Leah this afternoon. I agreed to meet her for a drink at some point next week.
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4:06 PM me: really?
where’d u see her?
4:07 PM Flaker: on the street
me: was it awkward?
4:08 PM Flaker: nah it was ok, I’ve run into a couple of times since things ended. It was pretty quick just “Hey, how’ve you been? We should get a drink sometime, when’s good for you?”
4:09 PM me: maybe she’s ready for love
4:10 PM Flaker: while it would be highly satisfying on a personal note to be able to reject her, I really doubt she’s got that in mind.
me: reject her?!
4:11 PM u would have a Super opportunity
Flaker: And here we reach the fundamental difference between you and me.
me: haha
4:12 PM Flaker: I sure as hell wouldn’t take her back after she left me, and I’m not a shitty enough person to sport fuck her, take pictures and post them on the internet.
4:13 PM But I expect it will go more like “Hey, sorry I hurt you, hope you’ve been doing well, I’ve been blah blah blah.”
me: so my date tonight hasn’t called me back yet
4:14 PM so i may be available to hang out
if you want to go to a cafe or something
Flaker: not tonight, got work to do.
4:15 PM and I’m gonna have to work out early tomorrow cause I’m having dinner at the neighbors.
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4:52 PM me: dude i bought a heart rate monitor
got here at lunch and i used it to lift
it rocks
except for the fact it says my heart rate right now is 0
i think i’m a zombie
